Sorry not sorry
'I am sorry!'
That's a phrase that we all get to say or hear! There is no need to say why we say sorry or apologise. But I will still say it otherwise there will be no reason for me to write this blog!😂😂
First off we all say sorry, because, obviously we made a mistake! duh! We do it because we regret our words and actions and we believe that saying sorry or apologizing will make things better or will reform the situation. That's very common among many of us. Yes, it is another debate that sorry doesn't usually fix matters or bring the situation back to normal. That's another debate in itself!
Sometimes. we also say sorry because we want to stay in the good books of someone. Such people do exist. They apologize in fear of facing a confrontation or a debate. So they simply apologize and end the matter. As simple as that. 😕
But then there is another reason why so many of us apologize. And that reason is the kind nature of that person. Why we do so is because we care more about the relationship rather about whether we are at fault or not. Many of us say sorry despite being righteous and not at fault. We do it just because we want to save the relationship. We do it because we place our feelings and values before our ego. We do it because proving oneself right in front of someone else is not important but the relationship is.
However, in my opinion I think it is high time to stop doing that. Not to stop being kind and caring, rather to start being valued. Yeah, that's the new trend in our society nowadays. When someone apologizes to us, despite us knowing that the person is not at fault, it is a look of triumph that we hold on our face instead of being ashamed and realizing whose mistake it really was. We tend to ignore the fact that the one who apologized needlessly has put aside his/her ego and chose to let things have a better flow. Think about it for a minute. Such a person, someone who says sorry just for the betterment of everybody, need to be respected and valued in turn. Think about how highly she/he considered the person at fault instead of pointing out the person's mistake.
So yeah, those who know that their sorry will not be respected should rather stop doing it right? Maybe, it is high time to say 'sorry not sorry.' (Yes I used the Demi Lovato's song in my blog 😉)
But ultimately the choice is yours!!
P.s If you have read the whole of it then dm me on instagram at Words_of_Mine 💕💕💕
And those who reached my blog through fb, then send me a message or simply comment. It will be really nice of you guys! Stay tuned for the next blog!
That's a phrase that we all get to say or hear! There is no need to say why we say sorry or apologise. But I will still say it otherwise there will be no reason for me to write this blog!😂😂
First off we all say sorry, because, obviously we made a mistake! duh! We do it because we regret our words and actions and we believe that saying sorry or apologizing will make things better or will reform the situation. That's very common among many of us. Yes, it is another debate that sorry doesn't usually fix matters or bring the situation back to normal. That's another debate in itself!
Sometimes. we also say sorry because we want to stay in the good books of someone. Such people do exist. They apologize in fear of facing a confrontation or a debate. So they simply apologize and end the matter. As simple as that. 😕
But then there is another reason why so many of us apologize. And that reason is the kind nature of that person. Why we do so is because we care more about the relationship rather about whether we are at fault or not. Many of us say sorry despite being righteous and not at fault. We do it just because we want to save the relationship. We do it because we place our feelings and values before our ego. We do it because proving oneself right in front of someone else is not important but the relationship is.
However, in my opinion I think it is high time to stop doing that. Not to stop being kind and caring, rather to start being valued. Yeah, that's the new trend in our society nowadays. When someone apologizes to us, despite us knowing that the person is not at fault, it is a look of triumph that we hold on our face instead of being ashamed and realizing whose mistake it really was. We tend to ignore the fact that the one who apologized needlessly has put aside his/her ego and chose to let things have a better flow. Think about it for a minute. Such a person, someone who says sorry just for the betterment of everybody, need to be respected and valued in turn. Think about how highly she/he considered the person at fault instead of pointing out the person's mistake.
So yeah, those who know that their sorry will not be respected should rather stop doing it right? Maybe, it is high time to say 'sorry not sorry.' (Yes I used the Demi Lovato's song in my blog 😉)
But ultimately the choice is yours!!
P.s If you have read the whole of it then dm me on instagram at Words_of_Mine 💕💕💕
And those who reached my blog through fb, then send me a message or simply comment. It will be really nice of you guys! Stay tuned for the next blog!
Life is all about meeting different kinds of people. Some will understand you right away, some will take time and some never will. However, there is something that we call compromise in life and that is something that we do every single day therefore saying sorry has to be a part of it. For that person who never will understand you, saying sorry is the only way to avoid getting into difficulties. What you said is absolutely right but remember the word "compromise".
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