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What I think about lectures!

You are all about to relate damn much to what I have to say! Be patient and read on! This is for those who always have something to say, irrespective of the situation and of the circumstances!  Okay! so I understand that this type of person always have something to say. In other words, we could say that they always lecture people. No matter what, this person is always there to give you a long lecture! Now, don't get me wrong. This is not always a bad thing! At times, these long lectures have helped others to recover from depression, heart break, tensions, social problems. These lectures have also helped many from doing the worst or helped many to be back on the right tracks! To sum it all, lectures (about any topic; love, life, friendship, ups  and downs etc) have been for a great cause once!  BUT  these persons need to understand now that not everything can be solved with lectures! If you are angry with someone the least thing to do is to give them lectures. or when someone is

The mindset needs to change!

  [ Zainab’s parents had gone to  Saudi Arabia  for performing  Umrah  and Zainab was living with her aunt. On 4 January 2018, while going to a Quran tuition class which was very close to her house, she went missing. Her uncle, Muhammad Adnan, lodged a complaint with the Kasur District Police Office.  CCTV  video footage which was discovered by Ansari's family members, with no help from the authorities involved, shows her accompanied by an unknown bearded man in white clothes and a jacket, holding her by the hand and walking on Peerowala Road in Kasur. Her body was later found in a garbage heap in Shahbaz Khan Road on 9th January 2018. After an  autopsy , it was confirmed that she had been raped and strangled to death. The autopsy suggested that she endured captivity and torture before her murder.} (as per wikipedia)  Kidnapped…Raped…Murdered! These words do not just sum up the story of Zainab Ansari, a young little angel but the story of many more girls who have been such vi

Distance!

*A short one* Don’t we often just complain about the fact that many people who used to be close to us are now distancing themselves? Then what do we do? Rant about it to others. In our generation, our biggest weapon is to post it on social media in order to shade the one concerned! Don’t deny. At a point of time, we must have all done it. But do we ever ask ourselves if this is the good approach? No, we don’t! Why? Because many of us have this sick mentality that we are always right and we can never go wrong, isn’t it? Well, if you think so, then you are wrong. Problems exist in everyone’s life, between a couple, between best friends, between children and parents. However, the approach to this issue should be different. When we notice the increasing distance between we and someone else, the first thing to do is to question yourself. What if you are the one at fault? What if your behavior caused the distance or what if you are just unwilling to understand the other person’s p