Distance!

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*A short one*

Don’t we often just complain about the fact that many people who used to be close to us are now distancing themselves? Then what do we do? Rant about it to others. In our generation, our biggest weapon is to post it on social media in order to shade the one concerned! Don’t deny. At a point of time, we must have all done it. But do we ever ask ourselves if this is the good approach? No, we don’t! Why? Because many of us have this sick mentality that we are always right and we can never go wrong, isn’t it?


Well, if you think so, then you are wrong. Problems exist in everyone’s life, between a couple, between best friends, between children and parents. However, the approach to this issue should be different. When we notice the increasing distance between we and someone else, the first thing to do is to question yourself. What if you are the one at fault? What if your behavior caused the distance or what if you are just unwilling to understand the other person’s problems? Maybe then you’ll be able to shorten that distance when you get to the roots of the problem!



Secondly, it is very well possible that the person just wants some space to him/herself and instead of blaming them, we should rather just respect what they want and stop being invasive since everyone deserves privacy!

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