Being perfect is not an achievement!

The more we are progressing into the modern age, the more are our thoughts changing. Some are changing for good and some are taking the worst form possible. Why is being called perfect the ultimate achievement? Perfect boobs, perfect abs, perfect eyebrows, what do they even mean? In our modern society, we all go on and on about how everybody is accepted no matter their shape or size or skin color? Heck no, we are far from being called a modern society. In a modern society, all these should not exist. A body is a body, despite its shape. Being curvy is a problem, yet being skinny is a problem too! Being too shy is being an introvert yet being very open minded and outgoing is bold and not accepted. So what does society actually want? So many videos exist on how to perfect the make up or the hair, but where are the videos that are actually important? Like how to be more beautiful in the inside? How to be more polite towards people?

 It’s really high time that we focus on our soul rather on our body. Everybody should be allowed to be of any shape and size. Losing weight should be of one’s willing choice, not as a result of society’s comment and the same goes for make up At the end of the day, it is much better to feel good in one’s skin on our own. I truly believe that the life that we are living is too precious and does not need to be defined by anybody’s comment. I also believe that it is high time that we actually stick our nose into our own business rather than constantly poking it in other’s business.

It is very encouraging to see how many of us, especially our youngsters are trying to change this mindset of our society. But if we truly open our eyes to the social problems that exist today then we will realize that there are way too many problems to be solved.

Due to these myths that we have set up, there are so many people out there who are having troubles growing up, finding their place own place in society. Because of these myths, many of us think we are misfits of society, especially if our upbringing is different from others! Aren’t these real issues?

Another issue that’s definitely present in our life today is that many of us rely heavily on social media and try to follow the examples set by the society. We have the urge to compare us to others, to do what others deem as right and to change ourselves. But what we should realize is that NO ONE is ever perfect and perfection can never be achieved. What we should realize is that our scars and blemishes make us beautiful and shape our personality. This is unique to all of us and no one can replicate what we have.

You out there who think that you are a misfit and are trying to connect with similar people, there is absolutely no need for you to do so! You are unique and your biggest achievement is that you are yourself! Be confident and make friends as you go! If you look down upon yourself, then others will too. But if you feel beautiful and confident, then no one can dare say otherwise! 

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